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A Life Well Lived

Bee Pai 06th Jan 2024

What did you want to be growing up?

Outside Maison Lee, Wembley with my Kiwi friend Jeanne


Honeywell Bull, Boston Ma. Enjoying my Winston Churchill Fellowship.


Beryl Ogden, Phyllis Spence and me; 1956?

I never contemplated growing up, I was too busy enjoying being a child. But this changed as I turned 14, my Father constantly reminding me that “you’ll soon be ready f’t’ mill” Seemed like my fate was sealed, I was to go and work in the local mill as Joan and Doreen did. Pat was clever, she would be doing something wonderful and magical and, most importantly, “keep me in my old age”. He never contemplated Pat might marry, he always told me she was to be “an old maid” !

Anyway, a chance meeting changed my future. Accompanying my friend Jackie Allen to the hairdressers, the owner commented on the length of my fingers saying I would make a good hairdresser and was I interested?  if so, I should go and see her when it was time to leave school. I was. I did. I became her indentured apprentice Easter 1958 and endured three years of bullying until I gave my notice the day I was legally ‘unbound’ from her. I was in London three days later, starting my career  with Maison Lee. I was a hairdresser for 25 years until it broke my back.