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  1. What was/is your relationship with your siblings? Has this changed?
  2. Were your parents strict?
  3. Remember your first car?
  4. What’s an achievement in your professional life that you’re proud of?
  5. What did you want to be growing up?
  6. Where did you meet your life partner?
  7. Did you have a nickname at school?
  8. What are some of the most important elections you voted in? What made them important to you?
  9. What country that you’ve travelled to has surprised you the most?
  10. What do you know about your family tree?
  11. What’s the first major news story or political event you remember living through as a child?
  12. What fascinated you as a child?
  13. Have you met any famous people?
  14. Do you have childhood friends you are still in touch with today?
  15. How did you rebel as a teenager?
  16. Do you have any notable ancestors?
  17. Tell us about a fun school trip you had as a child?
  18. Have you lived through any wars?
  19. Was your llife ever in danger?
  20. Did you go to any youth groups or summer camps?
  21. What’s the earliest birthday party you remember?
  22. Did you ever run away from home?
  23. How did your parents choose your name and does it have any special meaning?
  24. What are your memories of university/college?
  25. What do you remember about your family home?
  26. When did you first fall in love?
  27. What pieces of wisdom did your grandparents pass on to you?
  28. Where and when was your first date?
  29. Describe your father and write one favourite memory about him.
  30. Have you ever experienced a supernatural event?
  31. Where are your parents/grandparents from? Do they speak any other languages?
  32. Who was your favourite teacher and why?
  33. Do you remember your first job interview?
  34. What are your memories of primary school?
  35. Write about one of your happiest childhood memories?
  36. Describe your mother and write about one favourite memory with her.
  37. If you could give your younger self advice, what would it be?
  38. What is your earliest memory?
  39. Is there anything in life that has made your faith stronger? Or weaker?
  40. What family values were you brought up with?
  41. What was the most profound spiritual moment of your life?
  42. Did you have any serious accidents as a child?
  43. In your experience what makes a happy family?
  44. What was your first job?
  45. What are you most grateful to your parents for?
  46. How has being a parent changed you?
  47. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Your story – Heather Scott

Heather Scott 25th Dec 2024

What are your memories of university/college?

I was going to go to teacher training college straight from school but because of lack of work I failed my ‘A’ Levels so I joined the WRAF instead. I did eventually go to college after I was married, I had a year left to go on my six year engagement in the WRAF so started looking around for another job but as I was still interested in teaching I decided to apply to teacher training college got accepted so left the WRAF after completing only five of my six years.

I went to Bedford College of Higher Education completing a three year B.Ed degree, it was a pass or fail course, I decided not to stay on to do the extra fourth year for the honours level. Bedfordshire schools at that time operated the first school, middle school and upper school educational system, so they were the levels that Bedford offered for training, I trained as a first school teacher from age three up to age seven, although when I left I ended up teaching secondary maths. It was a modula course and alongside the modules that were compulsory we had to take, I think, six modules for our main subject/s during the first year, decreasing for subsequent years, I took Maths, Geography, and Youth and Community during the first year, dropping Youth and Community for the second year and then geography for my final year.

We were both serving at RAF Wyton in Cambridgeshire when I left the WRAF and living in our own house in St Ives, just a few miles down the road from Wyton, which is why I applied to colleges in the area, Bedford was about 45 minutes drive up the A1 from St Ives so I was able to live at home and drive in each day.  In the October Andrew was sent temporarily to Western Super Mare to work on the Green Goddesses (old RAF fire engines) during the firemans strike that went on for several months then, in the new year he was promoted and posted to RAF Manston in Kent so for most of the time during my three years I was living alone. I tried to change to a college in Canterbury, they were willing to accept me but I would have had to repeat my first year again so I decided to stay put which is just as well as Andrew was accepted for aircrew training and during my second year he started on the aircrew basic training course at RAF Finningley near Doncaster then continued onto the air engineer course also at Finningley.

I remember one of the maths lectures, I can’t remember his name but his ethnicity was Italian or Spanish and he thought he was gods gift to women, he was good looking but quite short.  Our course had a lot of mature students, mainly female, on it and he played up to them with a lot of them thinking he was wonderful and showing it but, people like him just turn me cold and unfortunately I also showed it, so did a friend of mine, Linda Stewart, so for three years during our maths lectures he would totally ignore both Linda and myself.  At a party at the end of our third year Andrew and I were with a group of people talking and this lecturer walked over to the group and positioned himself in front of me with his back to me so that he could talk to the others, it was so obvious, Andrew wanted to speak to him about his behaviour but I said he wasn’t worth it and to ignore him.

I graduated from Bedford College in 1980, as I said previously, it was a degree course but  a three year pass or fail or you could stay on for a fourth year to upgrade to honours.   As Andrew, on graduation from his course, was being posted down to Witlshire and we had already spent three years apart I didn’t feel the need to continue for a fourth year, so started looking for a teaching post in Wiltshire, primary posts were few and far between at the time so I applied for posts teaching maths in secondary schools which is how I ended up as a maths teacher, although I did teach at primary level later on when I went back as a supply teacher.