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  1. What was/is your relationship with your siblings? Has this changed?
  2. Were your parents strict?
  3. Remember your first car?
  4. What’s an achievement in your professional life that you’re proud of?
  5. What did you want to be growing up?
  6. Where did you meet your life partner?
  7. Did you have a nickname at school?
  8. What are some of the most important elections you voted in? What made them important to you?
  9. What country that you’ve travelled to has surprised you the most?
  10. What do you know about your family tree?
  11. What’s the first major news story or political event you remember living through as a child?
  12. What fascinated you as a child?
  13. Have you met any famous people?
  14. Do you have childhood friends you are still in touch with today?
  15. How did you rebel as a teenager?
  16. Do you have any notable ancestors?
  17. Tell us about a fun school trip you had as a child?
  18. Have you lived through any wars?
  19. Was your llife ever in danger?
  20. Did you go to any youth groups or summer camps?
  21. What’s the earliest birthday party you remember?
  22. Did you ever run away from home?
  23. How did your parents choose your name and does it have any special meaning?
  24. What are your memories of university/college?
  25. What do you remember about your family home?
  26. When did you first fall in love?
  27. What pieces of wisdom did your grandparents pass on to you?
  28. Where and when was your first date?
  29. Describe your father and write one favourite memory about him.
  30. Have you ever experienced a supernatural event?
  31. Where are your parents/grandparents from? Do they speak any other languages?
  32. Who was your favourite teacher and why?
  33. Do you remember your first job interview?
  34. What are your memories of primary school?
  35. Write about one of your happiest childhood memories?
  36. Describe your mother and write about one favourite memory with her.
  37. If you could give your younger self advice, what would it be?
  38. What is your earliest memory?
  39. Is there anything in life that has made your faith stronger? Or weaker?
  40. What family values were you brought up with?
  41. What was the most profound spiritual moment of your life?
  42. Did you have any serious accidents as a child?
  43. In your experience what makes a happy family?
  44. What was your first job?
  45. What are you most grateful to your parents for?
  46. How has being a parent changed you?
  47. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Your story – Heather Scott

Heather Scott 25th Dec 2024

Remember your first car?

I didn’t learn to drive until after I was married, Andrew filled in the form for a provisional licence for me and got me to sign it without me realising, so when the licence arrived it was like a fait accompli so I was more or less forced into booking lessons. The first car that I drove and learnt in, aside from my instructors car, was one that we both shared a grey mini that was very basic but did the job. The first car that I drove that I really called mine, because I always wanted one and choose it, was my spitefire 1500. She was light blue and lovely, I called her Lyla because the number plate was LYA767P, the only car number plate I have ever been able to remember. Although she was mine and I bought her and paid for her, with my money, Andrew insisted that she be registered in his name because that way we could insure her with him as the first named driver and me as the second one; as I had never had car insurance in my name he said it would be too expensive to insure her in my name.  I never had an accident in her but I do remember one icy day when I was driving her to the school where I worked I was driving out of our village and  past the village school which was on a bend, I didn’t break but I deaccelerated, there must have been black ice, and the car spun, luckily I was so shocked I didn’t try to fight it and ended up facing the way I had come, it’s a miracle that I didn’t crash into the school wall.  Our first spaniel, Sammy, loved that car, if the roof was down she would be in the front seat standing with her feet on the side letting the wind blow her ears. I drove that car until after Gareth was born, his moses basket would fit in tightly just behind the seats so wasn’t going anywhere. The kitchen staff at the school where I taught told me, after he was born, that they would watch me carefully every day squeezing myself out and then later back in behind the wheel worried sick  that I was going to bring on the birth. When Gareth became big enough for a car seat Andrew and I swapped cars, he took my spitefire and I drove the mini. He eventually skidded into the back of someone on the ice, I nearly cried because he had damaged my beautiful car, so we had to replace her. She was the only car I ever really cared about otherwise they have really only been a necessity. I didn’t register a car in my name therefore getting my own insurance until we moved to this house over thirty years after I learned to drive.