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  1. What was/is your relationship with your siblings? Has this changed?
  2. Were your parents strict?
  3. Remember your first car?
  4. What’s an achievement in your professional life that you’re proud of?
  5. What did you want to be growing up?
  6. Where did you meet your life partner?
  7. Did you have a nickname at school?
  8. What are some of the most important elections you voted in? What made them important to you?
  9. What country that you’ve travelled to has surprised you the most?
  10. What do you know about your family tree?
  11. What’s the first major news story or political event you remember living through as a child?
  12. What fascinated you as a child?
  13. Have you met any famous people?
  14. Do you have childhood friends you are still in touch with today?
  15. How did you rebel as a teenager?
  16. Do you have any notable ancestors?
  17. Tell us about a fun school trip you had as a child?
  18. Have you lived through any wars?
  19. Was your llife ever in danger?
  20. Did you go to any youth groups or summer camps?
  21. What’s the earliest birthday party you remember?
  22. Did you ever run away from home?
  23. How did your parents choose your name and does it have any special meaning?
  24. What are your memories of university/college?
  25. What do you remember about your family home?
  26. When did you first fall in love?
  27. What pieces of wisdom did your grandparents pass on to you?
  28. Where and when was your first date?
  29. Describe your father and write one favourite memory about him.
  30. Have you ever experienced a supernatural event?
  31. Where are your parents/grandparents from? Do they speak any other languages?
  32. Who was your favourite teacher and why?
  33. Do you remember your first job interview?
  34. What are your memories of primary school?
  35. Write about one of your happiest childhood memories?
  36. Describe your mother and write about one favourite memory with her.
  37. If you could give your younger self advice, what would it be?
  38. What is your earliest memory?
  39. Is there anything in life that has made your faith stronger? Or weaker?
  40. What family values were you brought up with?
  41. What was the most profound spiritual moment of your life?
  42. Did you have any serious accidents as a child?
  43. In your experience what makes a happy family?
  44. What was your first job?
  45. What are you most grateful to your parents for?
  46. How has being a parent changed you?
  47. What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

Your story – Heather Scott

Heather Scott 25th Dec 2024

What family values were you brought up with?

The main thing that could be called a value that my parents taught us was to always tell the truth no matter the consequences and I have tried to abide by that most of my life and hopefully instilled it in my sons. My mother also instilled in us that you should show everyone respect whatever their background or how they treat you, not always easy to do. I tried to get my sons to follow this ideal but, I think, with little success. My father believed that you should always pay for your necessary household bills, rent, food, rates, electric, looking after your family, etc. first and then if there was anything left after that then you could spend it on fun things, this definately rubbed off on me, if you can’t afford it and don’t necessarily need it then you don’t buy it. Most of my adult life I have questioned whether I needed things or whether I could afford them. Certainly at the beginning of my marriage, I believe, if it hadn’t been for this need to be careful with money we would have been in difficulty because our RAF/WRAF wages were very small and Andrew did not seem to be that careful with money. I think my sons understand the need to pay their necessary bills first before everthing else.